Introduction:Women throughout the world are faced with the challenge of whether or not to begin a relationship with a married man. If you are one of these women and are confused about which direction to take, I hope you will read the reasons your married lover is nothing but a heartbreak with new eyes.
Read my lips - "Your married lover will not leave his wife". You may fool yourself into believing (though odds are against it) he'll leave his wife for the benefit of your happy ever after. Alcoholics have a term that fits here - "stinkin' thinkin'".
He's "misunderstood" and the "marriage has been over for a long time" and "is only staying for the kids". Open your new eyes and get a clear understanding of what he really means. Your married lover will not leave his wife. He's nothing but a heartbreak.
Your married lover will not be available on holidays, weekends, birthdays, your company parties and his family obligations. If kids are in the mix, the un-availability quotient multiplies. He won't be available when he coaches soccer, when his daughter has a dance recital and when his wife needs him.
To nurture a relationship requires the presence of both people. Your married lover will not be available more often than he is. Why? Because, in essence, he's nothing but a heartbreak.
Forget about "couple" activities. Your married lover and his wife are THE couple in this scenario; you are the other woman. He won't invite you to the movies with his best friend and wife, he won't take you to a fine dining establishment to meet and eat with his parents and he won't poke around antique shops on Sunday afternoons for fear of running into someone he knows. You may as well be invisible. Got it? He's nothing but a heartbreak.
Envision this scene. You've made a delicious dinner, which is in the oven on "warm". The table is set with crystal, candles and linen napkins. You're dressed in a sexy little number. You uncork the wine and light the candles. You wait.
Either he'll call or he won't. The gist of the matter is that "something came up". Your married lover doesn't feel a need to entertain details. In addition, you'll burn up a lot of candles, because - he's nothing but a heartbreak.
You'll waste a lot of time, waiting by the phone while he doesn't call. Time is our most valuable commodity and when the moment is gone, we can't get it back. The phone is like a pot of water. If you watch it, the phone doesn't ring and water doesn't boil.
My dear, you owe it to your fine self to use your time preciously. However, until you can kick the habit of waiting for himself to call, you'll waste a lot of time. This guy is nothing but a heartbreak.
I'll leave you with one more thing to study about. Let's presume the two of you defy the odds and get married. He'll leave you the same way he came. There is always another woman right around the corner.
It's much easier to prevent a heart break than to heal one.
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I've never dating a married man (just not my thing- I'm neither a cheater nor a cheater-maker...) but the items that you've spotlighted about the negatives of dating a married lover are great.
This needs to be in a handbook for No-Nos regarding what women can get into when they are lonely or feel desperate. Married men are morally corrupt and pretty much selfish. I never had one but my own but the ones that tried to talk to me think women are idiots when they say "Oh, I would never let anyone break up my home, but I'd take care of them, though" Gee, what a prize! Oh, the nerve! H5
The info you provide in the heartbreak dating a married man sounds about right. I have often wondered why women or men get mixed up when someone is already taken.Those relationships hurt the man and the woman and many in that wake too. I have seen it with friends.
Nice list on why dating a married man is never a good thing. Well done list.
All very true & good advice. Messing around with a married man is never a good idea and will always end with someone's heartache and usually everyone involved.
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