Esteem Builders

Introduction:Parents can build esteem in their children using specific behaviors on this list. Work these into your family to encourage healthy children in a difficult world.

  • 01

    Thankfulness

    When you thank someone for their actions that builds the persons self esteem.The person reviews what that was that brought you to say thank you and the good feeling of self worth is a wonderful by product of you saying thank you. Try that often but only when sincerely meant with thanksgiving.

  • 02

    Inclusion

    Remember back when the teams were being picked for school. The first one chosen was thrilled and thought they were someone special to be included in the team picking. Include someone for any event or activity and build that persons self esteem.They will feel special and important.If they don't get the fact that you think they are super, tell them why you picked them for the event. An example of this would be said like this. I am going for a short walk around the block before it rains, would you like to join me? I would be honored to have you come and enjoy that time together.

  • 03

    Remarks of Praise

    When you see a task being done well, say so. Don't wait until the person is not around, since they might never hear your praise. The esteem is built with many remarks of praise and they can be for little things since we are all not able to accomplish extra ordinarily huge things. Little things mean a lot.

  • 04

    Statements and Actions

    Both statements and actions build esteem. When you look to enhance someone in a specific area of their life you gently direct them with positive words and actions. It is not the bull in the china shop that gets that esteem growing, but the quiet support that builds determination and the end result is a stronger and more solid esteem.

  • 05

    Encouragement

    Anytime esteem needs a boost encouraging words can do that well. Honesty is so vital since if it is not truthful that will be found out later and the esteem will take a nose dive rather than be enhanced. Constant looking for the encouraging ways will show up, so keep an outlook for the times when encouragement can be a cornerstone in building a healthy and resilient worthwhile esteem.







Comments

  • hummingbirdee 10/6/2012 Flag This Comment

    These are wonderful esteem builders. I was always one of the last ones picked on teams in school. Still have anxiety over it!

  • dptstretch 10/5/2012 Flag This Comment

    Great list...and shows simple ways that all of us can be encouragers (to kids or adults) too! H5

  • DanielDB 10/5/2012 Flag This Comment

    This is all so true, and it is actually basic everyday things, but we can move mountains with it. Thanks!

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