Introduction:Read these over and use them for yourself or someone you know is doing some online dating. When you are Looking for a healthy relationship and finding one you need to keep your thoughts straight and remain safe.
When a man immediately begins with compliments about your profile picture, take that as an alert. He probably is a vision type person and is also very shallow. When men see a pretty face and don't say anything about your profile consider them in the category of not interested in much else by wowing you with compliments so you will reply back to him.
If a man asks very personal questions in less than you think he should; that is an alert for you to be aware of for your gauge. Online dating is so easy for men to get down and dirty very quickly. Don't allow the man to ask personal questions. Tell him to slow down, take a deep breath and treat you like a lady instead of a slut.
Think about your boundaries for yourself. If a man asks for your private email address before you actually want to give it to him, think first before being willing to supply him with that. Remember it will not be something you can remove from him once you give it to him. Staying on the dating site email will give you lots of protection and that could be done for as long as you want to converse there.
Don't fall for the guy who wants your cell phone number very soon. Think about the time change, the hours he might call and the open conversations you will be giving. This gives him permission to have all those intimate calls with you if you give the number soon. Don't fall for the fact that he has to hear your voice. That is an alert for you to be aware that the man might not be a person you want calling you when ever he wants to call.
Don't be so quick to give your address out, your full name, bank information and so many more important private details. Be alert to the alerts of any man asking for your personal and private information until you are ready.If you are not certain about giving out information ask a close friend what to do.
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