It seems as though today, more marriages are in troubled times than ever before. Cheating is condoned, if not even, encouraged. Instead of helping people to see ways, they can make a marriage stronger!
How many noisy marriages have you seen? (Or heard?!) Love is the true harmony, not noise! Without it, you are just going thruough the motions. Love bears all, believes all, hopes all, endures all.
It takes give and take, to make a marriage work. Both sides, must have an understanding heart. Mutual cooperation = Understanding! To understand, someone or something, means to try. To listen.
You cannot say that marriage is 90/10%. Or, even 50/50%. It takes 100%/100%! to make marrige work, both sides must give 100%! I do not understand marriages where both sides, take sides, why be one, if there will always be two?
If you can't talk and...listen, which is communication, you might as well hang it up. All of the marriage, is communicating, and that daily! Lack of this, is the cause of all...marriage break ups. Whether finance, or sexual, or children, what ever the issue, there must be, communication!
Marriage is a union. Its not mine and yours but ours. You are now a unit. And all these parts together make you one! It is a knitting of two hearts and souls to become one working unit. Its no longer about ONES self, but about both!
I think with Love, understanding, giving, communication, and unity, you will make any marriage work! And it takes work. Love is not easy, but boy is it worth, the cost! Two are better than one!
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