this was a hard one i had to make. i didn't plan to make it but, well, i figured there are other people out there who are as confused as i am sometimes when a friend breaks down and needs you.
if you've got a friend on the line, you've got a couple things you need to do but first-don't freak out and bolt for her. we've already got one person in hysterics, we don't need two. this will just take a second but make sure whatever your doing isn't important. that won't be good if your friend finds out you ran out on your job for them. that will make them feel pretty bad and they won't call for your help again.
between the crying he or she may be doing, or the cold edged voice they're using and babbling with, try to figure out where they are. if its a place you know of that isn't safe, i suggest a pedal to the metal. cut it close.
have you found your friend? well, here's the hard part. some people start babbling in the face of a loved ones distress. zip it if your one of them. sit down next to them. wrap your arms around them, and if you have to, murmur nonsense, just to calm them down. they'll know your there and that you have their back. also, prepare for tears.
alright, i doubt staying outside for four hours is such a good idea for either persons health. try to get your friend into your vehicle and take your friend to your place. ik, ik, but it may be the place she's in isn't helping the situation. get the girl or boy into a safer environment, feed and send them to bed.
this is kind of difficult. they may not want to talk about it but, try to find out what made them get so upset. try to see if the two of you can deal with the problem and make it better for her. remember thought, it may be harder than you think so be patient and thoughtful.
i hope the person your reading this for understands how special you are.
So sensitive and sincere.
Thanks for the ways to help a friend in need. H5!
Such a touching, sensitive, caring read. You would definitely be a person I would call if I needed a friend. I felt good reading that someone got your TLC when they needed it.Thank you for your kind heart.
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