Friends come in when people feel a connection to you. For most people to make a connection they need to laugh and talk...
Look around and notice the people who talk most, they are usually people give a lot commentary; a lot of observations, so give them something to observe! Wear a colorful scarf, a great new pair of boots, or a beautiful rain coat!
To connect people want to know YOU so tell stories, the best kind are funny ones! Notice that the people who talk also do a lot...they talk because they have stories to share and experiences to relate.
This is a great way to avoid awkward conversations, starts getting awkward just burst out in song. People will sing along and you will feel confident and have fun. Songs are also great to make up as inside jokes which gives you more connection.
A gift is something that consildates a relationship, but make sure that when you give a gift it isn't big/expensive/awkward because then you will not suceed. Instead give a small inside joke or bring some cookies! The best gifts are the ones people don't notice and that you share :)
Inside jokes are the best way to make connections. To make inside jokes you need to bring out some quality in yourself that has emotional value, like funny or random. Then just use that to your advantage. Watch a T.V. show and bring something funny up in it and keep it going!
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