Read this information on how to control someone that's out of control, and you are trying to calm them down.
People, who are trying to bring an argument to an end faster, should pray first of all, before acting on the stressful situation. Pray the prayer of agreement with everyone e involved in this heated argument. The prayer of agreement is from Matt. 18 verse 20.
Breathe deeply the next time you fill yourself in the middle of an argument. Breathing deeply is even practiced while practicing yoga. Think fast when stressful situations happen like this, and take several deep breaths and then repeat this type of meditation exercise, more than once if needed.
Try speaking with the compassion that loving feelings are made from. Tomorrow may not come for the one that the argument is all about tomorrow. Try to remember this one thought, and then you'll have no further regrets if something unexpected happens. Life is short, so speak always with compassion.
People that are in the middle of an argument, may just calm down if everyone can calm down long enough to drink a cup of hot tea, or any other warm, or cold drink together.
People that get upset easily don't usually know how to handle disagreement, without starting an argument. If the listener could just let the upset person talk it out, and then talk to them about what has them upset, then, add one more dose of listening to the conversation. The problem should be solved by this point.
Think about these 5 tips the next time an argument is facing you, or someone you love. The 5 steps for me have worked before. The situation can still get trying many of the time; however this is my 5 rule steps that help me more than not.Communicate and live a more peaceful life,
Good list for when we don't quite seem to get along :) H5
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