Violence is a reaction of people who have failed to develop a coping mechanism to deal with others and situations. Violence occurs as reaction against other violent acts or simply as a reaction to the actions of others.
Fiction or non-fiction stories about characters who deal with violent or potentially-violent situations in a peaceful way help children understand how they can deal with situations in their own lives.
Cartoons have violent actions and films feature a character who may die before the end of the movie, but media with gratuitous violence, such as adult-themed action films, are not suitable for children. Video games with violence teach only violent action to situations. Undeveloped minds learn from repetitive action and violent games and movies reinforce the same actions.
Don't assume that your child will learn without an actual conversation about the use of violence. When real-life events, including news stories, include violence, talk about it with your children. Voice your disagreement with the violence and discuss alternative actions the people could have taken that didn't involve violent actions.
When children fight with friends or with siblings, intervene quickly to stop the fighting. Never encourage students to fight at school or beat up other students. Discuss other interventions to keep your child safe at school.
Telling your child to practice peaceful methods of disagreement and protection means nothing when parents and guardians threaten others with physical violence, even verbal challenges. Children learn from watching others. Behave as if your children or grandchildren are watching when dealing with others.
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